Is he the nervous type? Maybe he feels like you don't want him to. He got wrapped up in his own life and before he knew it, you were a young woman. He probably feels like you wouldn't want him involved, but that's not true, right?
My big brother hasn't talked to me in a long time either. I know I'm busy, and I know he's busy...but it hurts. I'm not sure I would know what to say to him, and I'm sure he's feeling the same way. But you're siblings, and you're together now. Rebuilding is all you can do.
It's frustrating now, but I'm kind of jealous you get to rebuild your relationship!
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Date: 2013-07-31 01:28 am (UTC)Is he the nervous type? Maybe he feels like you don't want him to. He got wrapped up in his own life and before he knew it, you were a young woman. He probably feels like you wouldn't want him involved, but that's not true, right?
My big brother hasn't talked to me in a long time either. I know I'm busy, and I know he's busy...but it hurts. I'm not sure I would know what to say to him, and I'm sure he's feeling the same way. But you're siblings, and you're together now. Rebuilding is all you can do.
It's frustrating now, but I'm kind of jealous you get to rebuild your relationship!